Saturday, July 5, 2008
Truth is in the Timing
Well, the discernment meeting with my husband went well. They had fun and he felt comfortable and it sounds like it was very positive. He was able to share with them a lot more info about me than they knew...sometimes it takes a different person...I have a hard time talking about myself anyway. The biggest two things that seem to have come from the meeting (and they're related) are that my husband has reached new acceptance about the whole thing, which is MAJOR. And happened naturally...he doesn't remember the huge resistance, and he's grown into the idea. The committee saw this and felt like he wasn't as at odds with it as I had depicted it. But time has done its work. The meeting coincided with our anniversary week and he wrote me a card and on it he wrote that he was realizing that he had to share me with the world, and that he was a little sad about it, but that it felt good. Wow. I cried as I read that supportive and loving statement. So...more doors have opened. What remains is a LOT of work, regarding preparation for the hard questions that come AFTER the discernment committee. We've barely scratched the surface. But that's cause we've been dealing with my resistance and doubts, more than anything else. TIMING seems to be the biggest question for me right now. I want to be a young(ish) priest. But I have time. But if I take the time, I won't be young when I finally start the work. So we'll see.
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I'm sure you'll still be young-ish by the time you're ordained- at least comparably! :)
I love the title of this post- it is so true! You were wise to let your husband come to his place of acceptacne anad support in his own timing. This is great news!
I had a feeling that your husband, like mine, would come around all on his own...that Holy Spirit and her mysterious ways....
I don't know what to say about being youngish...I was 38 when I started seminary and am 51 now...but I work for a parish filled with retired folk some who have children older than me...LOL...so, by their standards I AM YOUNG....
I hear ya on wanting to be young-ish when you start, I really do.
Keeping you in my prayers...
young is a relative term... young-at-heart however is a spiritual matter and an outlook on life matter... i'd opt for those anyday over less candles on the birthday cake!
Hope the anniversary at the yurt was fun. Prayers for your process.
Grace??? Are you ok??? Just wondering...
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